Sunday, April 18, 2010

Wow. It has been forever since I wrote anything on our blog. I'll just give a quick run down on the things that have happened this semester. So as layoffs started at work, it wasn't long before the entire department I worked for was shut down. A few fellow employees were transferred to other departments and the rest of us were laid off. It was a very trying time for me as I found myself without work. I didn't realize how much my job had begun to mean to me. It was what got me out of bed at a reasonable time and helped me be productive and useful. The change I experienced without my job was extremely difficult. Without my job, it felt like I had lost all motivation to do anything. Thank goodness it didn't last too long. Shortly after losing my job, applied for a position with Qwest in their customer service department. Dave and I were both pretty excited for this position. The benefits were going to be awesome (full medical insurance, pay was better, overtime encouraged, retirement fund, and they also would pay for my tuition for a few part-time classes). Not long after applying for the job at Qwest my old employers called me and wanted to re-hire me for a new position in the company. Qwest weren't going to be looking at application for another 3 weeks and I was going stir crazy at home so we decided to go ahead and take the position with Impact. About two weeks after I started with Impact again, Qwest called for an interview. The funny thing is that although Dave and I had been really excited and very hopeful about this job, neither of us had very good feelings about the interview. We prayed about it and surprisingly enough the next day after work, I stopped for a minute to ask my boss about some time off when my mom came up to visit, and before leaving my boss asked me to switch to another department which would be so much more enjoyable and a step up from where I was. It was the answer we needed to know that I was supposed to be at Impact. That's the wrap on work right now!

School is a very a different story however. As always I've procrastinated to the max and the next two weeks will probably the worst of my life. However, if I can make it past these next two weeks, I will graduate with my associates degree from Snow College. I still need to go and see an adviser at Utah State University to discuss classes for the fall semester but I'm thinking I need to be sure that I pass all of my classes so that I will be able to transfer to Utah State. Down to the Wire!!!

Family is great. Dave is a little worried at how baby hungry I've been but the good news I'm only baby hungry for all my friends babies. It's pretty crazy...the majority of people I see and talk to are pregnant now due in a month or two. Other than that, Dave and I are doing great. Next month we will be celebrating our first wedding anniversary. It's amazing that Dave hasn't mailed me back to my dad with a "Return To Sender" stamp across my forehead. I remember Dave sweeping me off my feet a month after our wedding when he told me that he thought that he had reached the peak of how much he could love anyone when he married me. Then he told me that he was wrong. His love for me increases everyday. I'll always remember that because it is exactly how I feel about him. We are celebrating our first anniversary and we've loved every minute of our life together!

My mom and sister had the chance to come up and see us and we had an absolute blast together! Loved having the girl time with them!!!!! We didn't have to do anything really fancy...we just loved talking and shopping together! It felt wonderful to spend the time together. Rachel, Rob, Dave, and I also traveled to New Mexico for Mom's birthday. Dad had called us way in advance and arranged for us to come down and surprise her. We had a wonderful time at home with everyone. Nick and his family are still as wonderful and fun as ever, and the time with everyone was perfect.

Dave and I also got to spend time with his parents over conference weekend. During the priesthood session of conference (which Dave and his dad went to), Mama Beth and I were able to enjoy plenty of shopping together and a wonderful dinner at the Cracker Barrel. We had such a good time together! Nothing like spending time with family for the perfect weekend.

Dave and I are currently ward missionaries in the ward. I have absolutely loved this calling. It's been neat to be a part of the ward. At first I struggled being in the ward because it changed every week -its a student ward where most people miss a lot of church as they visit family. Now being a ward missionary gives me the opportunity to enjoy being around people I don't very well and to step out of my comfort zone to make a new friend. Dave and I are quickly learning that although we'd really like to, we just can't have friends over every night of the week for dinner. We try to limit it to only 3 times a week but sometimes even that doesn't work. We thoroughly enjoy spending time with the friends we have here.

Well...I have work that will be calling my name long before I'm ready for it so I'm going to hit the hay. Love you all!

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Sleep At the Cazier Residence: the Sleepless Slumber

There is a lot of change that a man must go through after he gets married. Weight gain, hair loss, chick flicks, feminine hygiene products in his bathroom, having to report of his whereabouts, emotions... these are all side-effects of that amazing promise and vow that thousands of couples make with each other each year. The most significant one, for me at least, has been getting used to sleeping in the same bed as another person.

I admit I was given a rude awakening to this change on the very first night after Em and I got married. I was sleeping soundly, grateful to have embarked on the next great stage of my life and dreaming about the eternity before me, when I was awakened by a sharp and nauseating feeling; Em's knee had quickly jerked (a result of her having one of those dreams where you're falling and one of your body parts moves) and collided with my... uh... lower abdominal region. Startled awake, I realized what had happened, and with anger I was about to shout when I looked over at my peacefully-sleeping wife, who--just like one of those Disney princess pictures--was innocently sound asleep, completely unaware of the chaos she had caused.

I rolled over, sighed painfully, and grasped reality: this is going to be a loooong eternity.

The next morning, I told Emily of the domestic violence that occurrd the night before, and after accepting her apology I said, "Ya know, it's a good thing I'm going into special education. The way you knee, our kids might have some disabilities."

Ok, so truth be known, it isn't really me that takes the abuse of having to sleep with another person. To face the facts, it's my poor dear wife that has the short-end of the deal. The other night, I awoke at around 2:30 AM standing in the closet. I heard this voice calling to me over and over: "Dave... Dave... what are you doing over there?"

You know that feeling of when you know you know you are losing cool and all that you can do is desperately claw at keeping your dignity? As Em called to me, I realized that I was indeed sleepwalking but for some unknown reason, I didn't want Em to know this. So, as smoothly as even possible, I replied: "I just... gotta see if they match... my shirt and pants..." I trailed off.

Yeah... she's sure to believe that one. After obeying Em's call for me to return to bed, I rolled over and went back to... or continued rather... my sleep. Needless to say, the next morning Em was all over the previous night's experience like white on rice. "You were soooo funny!" Em giggled over and over. "I don't know what you're talkin' about," I lied grumpily.

To make it worse for my dear wife, this definitely wasn't my first sleepwalk/sleeptalk experience nor shall it be my last. Besides attempting to teach an amazing lesson to a class of 251 students in my sleep, I have also searched for several random unidentified items under the bed, played a killer round of racquetball, and even attempted to romance Em.

Sleep at the Cazier residence is only sleepless slumber.

Married!

Married!
May 23, 2009

We're engaged!

Dave and I had mentioned getting married and we knew that's what we wanted however I was not expecting to have him propose until the spring semester had started and to not be getting married until the beginning of the fall semester.
Dave had other ideas.
December 12 was the last day that Dave and I had before I headed back to New Mexico for Winter Break. For my Christmas Present Dave had told me that he was taking me up North to walk around Temple Square with all of its Christmas lights, and to the church history museum, to see the new Joseph Smith movie, and to take me to dinner anywhere I wanted to eat. He also gave me a gift card to one of my favorite stores, Deseret Book which he also planned to let me roam through while we were up North.
Others had mentioned the possibility of him proposing but I brushed it off knowing that he didn't want to get engaged this semester. I knew I was right when the week of the trip, Jake and a date (Emily Dutson), planned to join us for the trip.
The day we had set to leave, I was a stressed out mess. I had packing to do, and a final to finish. Dave, Jake, and Emily all arrived at my apartment while I was still in my Pajamas finishing the last of my work. I very quickly showered and got dressed (thank goodness my roommates had already picked out my clothing for the occasion). We left town and I slowly de-stressed as we continued the drive. By the time we made it to Salt Lake we were all starving. We stopped and got the soup and sandwich at the Nauvoo Cafe, which was absolutely amazing and incredibly delicous. We then found the times for the Joseph Smith Movie and left to walk through the Church History Museum. On the way there Dave and I realized that his camera had no batteries so Jake and Emily walked through the museum and Dave and I went to buy the batteries. We all made it back in time for the beginning of the Joseph Smith Movie. It was a fantastic movie which also had me crying by the end of it. When the movie finished the lights were all on at Temple Square so we decided to walk around. As we walked Dave began tossing his keys in the air. He dropped them and I stopped to wait for him while he picked them up. It took me a few seconds to realize that he was proposing to me! I said yes and he slipped a beautiful ring on my finger.

Engaged!

Engaged!
I know this picture isn't the best quality but this is right after Dave proposed to me and was putting the ring on my finger!

How We Met/First Date

Dave and I first met when he and his best friend Jacob Thomas ( a fellow resident on Castilleja Dorm like myself) decided to decorate Duke Dance's apartment before he returned home from his honeymoon. At the time they claimed that they needed help knowing how to decorate it and therefore were looking for the help of a few girls. They roamed the hallways until they found a room of about 6 girls (including myself). We agreed to help and set up a time for later in the week. Later that week we all met up and made a trip to Walmart to get the needed decorations. While there Dave and I ended up separated from the rest of the group. Dave and I talked while we looked for the right decorations...he asked what brought me to Snow and I answered honestly. "The Lord. This is where he wanted me and there is no other explanation for it." He claims this impressed him...and I think I believe him. The next Friday, I had the apartment to myself for one hour before my next class. I had just succeeded in splattering miracle whip all over after dropping the bottle on the floor when someone knocked on the door. Lo and Behold it was Dave. He came and we talked for the next hour. He invited me and my roommate Marsha to go on a hike the next day. I thought carefully and decided it would be fun. I was almost late for my next class which I just happened to have with Jake. Jake and I started talking and the plans changed so that we ended up turning the night into a double date and doing the hike that night rather than the next day. Sadly enough I am not much of a hiker and I gave a little over halfway through the hike. Dave, ever the gentleman stopped with me and we again talked for the next hour while Jake and Marsha finished the hike and came back to us. The men had brought with the makings for a sandwich which we all ate while watching the sunset. Afterwards we headed back to the car and went back to Duke Dance's apartment to watch the Emperor's New Groove and Mountains of Ephraim (most of you won't know this one..it's a home video Dave and Jake made before their mission) and enjoying a bowl of ice cream. Before ending the night Marsha and I invited them to join us for the rodeo in Manti the next night. They agreed and that concluded our first date!